Friday, August 26, 2005

Two wives?

I’ve heard a report that one of raps most respectable artist has two wives. I sat back and pondered the thought of me having more than one wife living with me. Of course it wouldn’t be legal but if there was a mutual understanding between the three parties, could it work? I am not sure. There maybe jealousy and resentment and how would the kids view it. Now let me go outside the box and think like a person who is doing it and has that I don’t care attitude. A man would love to have two women at his disposal. The ego steps in and he may feel like he’s king of the world. He would never have to cheat nor have the ambition to cheat, he may push the envelope and to bring another woman in on this who may feel comfortable in this situation. That’s too much for me! I am sure I could survive but I would never know what it feels like to have to women living with and interacting with me. That’s why we have fantasies. We can think about the things other people do in their lives with envy as we go along with our boring everyday lives.
The other side of the coin would be if my wife wanted more than one husband, I would not be as open to that for various reasons. I am not that secure with my self, although I am a work in progress. For now I will keep it like this and salute those who are committed in those types of relationships. When you really think about a lot of people are doing something similar called swinging. The partner knows what he or she is doing so there won’t be any sneaking. That’s another subject I may tackle later.
Thanks for reading my crazy thought of the day.
My hats off to that brother. Much respect to Mos Def the rapper